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PostSubject: Suicide   Sun Apr 03, 2011 7:42 am

What do you do when one of your mates kills themselves? Mate of mine hung himself this week and it's killing me inside. Can't eat, can't sleep, can't think straight Sad can't help but blame myself. I'm in bits inside. Help anyone? Dunno what the point of this is, guess I just needed to get it out somewhere
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PostSubject: Re: Suicide   Sun Apr 03, 2011 9:30 am

It's grieving Joe and your beter getting it out than keeping it in In time you will feel beter ok

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PostSubject: Re: Suicide   Sun Apr 03, 2011 9:59 am

jojo 1 of my best friends O.D a few years ago i was ripped to bits i had known him for about 20 years, you just gotta greve and you will get over it, theres not alot people can say or do to an extent it takes time, and you gotta deal with it in ya own way, just think of the goodtimes you spent together rather than the bad
take care hope you feel better soon
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PostSubject: Re: Suicide   Sun Apr 03, 2011 6:56 pm

Cheers fellas Smile at moment I dunno whether to cry or scream or punch a wall. My heads goin round in circles I just feel like I'm cracking up :-/
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PostSubject: Re: Suicide   Sun Apr 03, 2011 7:52 pm

Do what ever you feel you need to do Jo.
People who care will understand. Like everyone else, I wish I could say or do something to make the pain go away, but I can't.
We're all here if you need us.
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PostSubject: Re: Suicide   Sun Apr 03, 2011 8:12 pm

chin up girl ,you will get over it ,you"v got 2 keep urself bizzy 2 take ur mind off it,get the spanners out and get under the bonnet KEEP BIZZY,and it is silly 2 blame urself u need 2 stop thinking that way,...take it easy now 1day at a time ok
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PostSubject: Re: Suicide   Mon Apr 04, 2011 3:22 am

I've lost 2 cousins that way in the past 4 years, its very difficult to know what to do. The first time, apart from the obvious grieving I felt guilty and angry and I lost the plot abit and had a very violent spell, I didn't tell mates anything about it untill months after and I think that was the problem. The second time I was more able to cope, when I found out I went down the pub with a good mate and just spoke for a few hours and got it all off my chest, I felt better for it afterwards and coped a lot better. Sorry I've gone on abit but moral of the story is that the best way to deal with it is to talk through the positive memories, realise that beating yourself up and feeling guilty doesn't help anyone, and with time it does become easier. Chin up mate.
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PostSubject: Re: Suicide   Mon Apr 04, 2011 7:00 am

this is normal, just keep talking, friends, non friends, anyone. if you need any more, phone samaritons they are very good listeners.
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PostSubject: Re: Suicide   Mon Apr 04, 2011 7:08 am

Keep your chin up jo dont let it drag u down .
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PostSubject: Re: Suicide   Wed Apr 06, 2011 3:33 am

im very sorry to hear that jo iv bin thear to i felt the same as you do as all the guys have said keep busy and talk when you ready or to any one it helps but time wiil make it better do not blame your self
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PostSubject: Re: Suicide   Wed Apr 06, 2011 4:27 am

iv lost 15 good m8s in last 10 years through drugs and things and like baz said time is a good healer dont blame ur self it was there choice Wink
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PostSubject: Re: Suicide   Thu Apr 07, 2011 6:16 am

I just want to say a big thankyou for all your kind words Smile have been abroad working for 4 days so haven't been able to get on here but it was nice to come home to!! So thanks again. Funeral is on Wednesday Sad not looking forward to it
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